Friday Quotes #9 – Dahlia Adler

dahlia is an overachiever

Any writer – any person – can tell you that sometimes you get so busy in life that you are FORCED to place things on the figurative “back burner.” It’s common. It happens to the best of us. The thing that gets me through it sometimes is that cool kids like Beyonce and Sergei Polunin probablyyyyy have to back burner the hell out of things sometimes too.

But what happens when you’re not just letting things slide because you’re busy? What happens when your energy is zapped and it’s a miracle you’ve made it through the day without crying or sleeping for 10 hours?
Dahlia wrote a great post explaining how It’s Not Just You and because Dahlia is an overachiever, she tweeted it too and LOOKIT THAT, THE THING IS GOIN’ VIRAL.
But the point is, people are responding to that because it’s TRUE.
In case you’ve noticed, Trench Coats & Quotes has been curiously absent on all fronts. It hasn’t been intentional. It’s just because we’ve both kind of hit our max for the time being. For me, I’ll tell you exactly what my problem is – I’m not only stretched too thin, but I’m dealing with a lot of anxiety right now. And it’s seriously draining. I’m juggling a 70-hour work week with teaching dance and writing, and applying for ESL jobs and lesson planning for those applications and socializing and dating and that’s not even factoring in all the little stuff that happens during my week, like paying bills and fitting in my monthly Brazilian. (What do you MEAN, “TMI”???!)
That’s all I’ll say on it. But I just want you to know that sometimes you’ll get where I am and you’ll backburner your S.O. and your Twitter friends and your hygiene and your writing. You’ll backburner your entire life. And that’s okay for a little while.
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10 Important Terms for New Writers to Know!

When I first joined the writing world, it was scary. When I embarked upon the ONLINE writing world, things just got infinitely worse. There’s a lot you have to know, the least of which being this weirdo writers’ language that all the kids seem to be speaking. And the thing is, there aren’t a lot of ways to learn what these words, phrases and acronyms mean.

If you’re feeling like you’re unsure about writing terms, turns of phrase, new-aged slang or popular hashtags, look no further—Trench Coats & Quotes has your back!

1. CP

This is an acronym, if you were wondering. You were, I’m sure. Example, “Trench Coats & Quotes is run by rag-tag writing CP duo, Diana and Candice.”

CP = Critique Partner

These are invaluable writing partners you can bond with, not only on a creative level, but on a soul level. CPs are meant, on the most basic level, to critique your writing work (and to share pics of your dream cast of characters). Not sure how to find your own CP? Diana and I found one another on Absolute Write. Browse the forum there, be active within the community, and get to know someone. Megan Grimit (@megangrimit) also runs a great CP match every so often. Check out either site to find out more.

2. Beta Reader

Beta readers are separate from CPs for a few reasons. Betas don’t *have to be* writers. It’s not mandatory that a beta read and critique your work quid pro quo. There’s no writer deity twisting your arm to give as good as you’re getting. A beta reader will read your work and often critique it based on questions you’ve asked them to consider, or based on their own feelings and opinions about the work.

My own personal betas were found via Twitter. As were some of Diana’s. Twitter’s a great place to find beta readers, so give it a go if your manuscript is ready for fresh eyes that aren’t yours, a CP’s or an agent/editor/publisher’s.

3. Sprint

No, no. Noooo, chill. There’s no actual running involved. A *writing sprint* is, essentially, what it sounds like. They typically come in small blocks of time–the most common being 30 minute increments each round. Sometimes writers sprint with other writers, and each sprint ends with each of those sprinters checking in with word counts for that round and/or a line from their produced writing. Confused yet? Don’t be. Sprints can last hours and have a tendency to be run in marathons by @FriNightWrites on twitter, especially during November’s NaNoWriMo.

4. Scrivener

Scrivener is a writing program similar to that of Microsoft Word, however, it’s catered SPECIFICALLY to a writer’s needs. No matter what kind of writer you are (novelist, screenwriter, etc). You might call it the writer’s wet dream. While it can be slightly intimidating at first, after watching the program’s tutorial, you’ll be off in Scriv-land in no time. You can download Scrivener here.

5. TBR

This is an acronym–there are a lot those in the writing world. We’re writers, so naturally we think everything can be simplified if it can be acronymed. So, TBR? To. Be. Read. It refers to books you intend to read at some point. This is a term that originated somewhere around the Goodreads community. We think it’s an important one because in order to write well, you have to read well and you have to read often.

6. LI;)

OH LOOK ANOTHER ACRONYM. Stands for Love. Interest. This is big for the romance writers—*nudge nudge, both Diana and I do the romance.

We really reallyyyy like this acronym.

7. The Big 5

These are the top 5 publishing houses. The major contenders. The Titans. The Kimye’s of the publishing world (sorry to all the Kim and Kanye haters out there).

  • Hachette
  • Penguin/Random House (THEY MERGED!)
  • Simon & Schuster
  • HarperCollins
  • Georg von Holtzbrinck Publishing Group/Macmillan

8. Genre/Category

We’ve combined this one because the distinction is often confused. CATEGORY usually conveys very little about the book’s content. Examples of category are (brace yourself for lots of acronyms)–MG (Middle Grade), YA (Young Adult), NA (New Adult), and Adult.

GENRE will tell you more about what type of CATEGORY you’re reading. Examples of GENRE are sci-fi, fantasy, romance, memoir, biography, historical, etc. Because this is a basic post we won’t go (too deep [twss]) into sub-genres, like how you can have an NA category of romance that has a sub-genre of contemporary fiction. Yeah, sorry.

9. Query

A query or query letter is the thing that may or may not get agents and editors to request and read your manuscript. The ultimate result of a query is to get your book represented for publishing. You might also consider querying publishers. Some don’t require you to be agented before they’ll publish you. There are specific things that MUST be included in your query letter and a lot of people debate what those things are. We’ll leave that up to them. This is, after all, still a BASIC intro post.

10. BEA

Did you miss the acronym thing? Us, too. BEA is BookExpo America. It’s a writer’s conference held every year in New York and tends to draw crowds by the hundreds. It’s a great place to meet and make writing connections, learn a thing or 5, and meet up with writerly friends–*hintnudgecough* Candice will actually be at RWA (the Romance Writers of America conference) next year.

Well, there’s your top 10 superly important TERMS TO KNOW. Next time we’ll cop a nice feel on the important hashtags to know. #AmWriting, #NaNoWriMo, #AmReading, #MondayBlogs, and more! So for sure get your cute self back here for that.

xo, Cam

Ps: CALL TO ACTION! With the launch of Trench Coats & Quotes, Diana and I are looking for not only authors to interview, but also graphic designers, cover artists, photographers, agents, editors, and more!

Wanna be featured? Email us at or contact Diana (@DianaLong87) or myself (@CandiceAmanda) on twitter!

Ta-taaa until next time, from these two girls under the trenches!

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